Today a friend re-posted a blog that I’d posted exactly one
year ago. I read the first line of the
blog and it was something akin to “we’re getting ready to go back to Sierra
Leone!!” I could start this blog the exact
same way. Whoda thunk.
But here we are! Getting ready to back…..again. J The last thing we were waiting for before we
left was to get Marie’s citizenship. And
we got it!! The significance was pretty
lost on her. While she and I were
waiting for her interview at the immigration office, Peter, my mom and Ben went
for a walk outside. Marie repeatedly said
that she really wished she was outside on the walk with Nana instead of here in this boring office. Sorry, not happening chica.
I was pretty nervous for the interview, just because it was the culmination of months of gathering paperwork….and really, years in the making. I was formulating what my “plan B” was going to be if, for some reason they said no. My mind was whirling, I felt slightly nauseated and my hands had a little shake to them. Marie just wanted to go on a walk.
In the end it was pretty painless. The officer had already gone through the
mountain of paperwork I’d sent in, so I just had to verify that it was all
true. We’d had an awkward interaction with the judge during Marie’s adoption in
which she’d started giggling every time the lawyer answered the judge with
“yes, my lady.” I’d tried to explain
that it was because that’s what princesses and queens are referred to in her movies,
but it didn’t seem to translate very well.
I was praying we’d be able to skip that kind of awkwardness this
time.
I stood and swore my oath, spent some time going over the
facts of the case…..and then it was done.
I was ecstatic. Marie was glad
she could go find Nana.
Marie finally got to go on her walk with Nana |
We had to kill some time until we could pick up the
certificate of citizenship so we went for a celebratory hot chocolate. Marie started to get into the spirit of
things when she told the barista that she was now a “u…nisyn” (US
citizen). The barista got all excited
and made a big deal about it.
Marie's celebratory "tea" |
When it was time to go pick up the certificate, Marie wrote her
name at the top of the certificate. They
went to adhere her picture to the certificate and I cringed. I stopped the woman.
“Wait. This is the picture you’re going to put on the certificate? It’s going to be there forever?”
“Wait. This is the picture you’re going to put on the certificate? It’s going to be there forever?”
You see, the picture that she was attaching to the
certificate was a passport picture that I’d sent in. And it was not good. The day we’d had the
picture taken was one of “those” days. I
had quite a few things that just happened to need to be done the same day and I
was just barely treading water. I’d
taken Marie’s hair out but hadn’t had time to fix it again so it was…..a little
wild. And she must have been feeling my
stress because my amazingly photogenic child could give me nothing but her
“constipated smile.” We teased her about
that smile for weeks afterward….and now they wanted to make it part of her
permanent file. I’ve sent in probably
1,000 passport photos in my day and I’ve never seen one again. Now they want to make this one a permanent
one.
The woman graciously told me I could use another one if I
had one, which I just so happen to have….a cute one with her hair all braided
and beaded and her thousand watt smile lighting up her face. I ran out to my car to get it and the crisis
was averted.
And now we’re headed back! Marie’s citizenship was the last
box that needed to be checked off before we can go back. Our tickets are
confirmed….July 25th we’re out of here!!